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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Hey, I'm Qasim

A man trying to build something meaningful in this dunya. A company, a legacy, and inshallah a home full of purpose and peace.

🕌 Muslim 📖 Quran complete 🎙️ Podcast host 📚 MS student 🌍 Somali roots 🏗️ Founder 🏔️ Outdoorsy 🌗 Ambivert ✈️ 7 countries

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Who I am
A life built with intention
The roots
Somali diaspora, two worlds
Growing up between cultures taught me how to listen without assuming and how to hold onto who you are no matter where you land. I also produce content in both English and Somali because the community matters to me in a real and practical way.
The student
Always learning, never arriving
BS in Business Administration. Now finishing an MS in Business Analytics. I believe the moment you stop being a student of something you start going backwards.
The builder
Founded Kulan Group Ltd
I built an education technology company from nothing. Four verticals, real impact on real people. I am the kind of person who sees a gap and cannot leave it alone until I do something about it.
The voice
Co-host of Intel Cast
I co-host a podcast because honest conversations shift things. I bring the same care to every discussion that I bring to every relationship.
The community
Co-founder of Rise Community Development
Legacy is not just about your family. It is about what you leave behind for the people around you. Giving back has never felt optional to me.
What home means to me
Somewhere with meaning
I do not picture a house. I picture a feeling. Quran in the morning. The smell of food being made without rush. A place where conversation never feels forced and silence never feels awkward. Somewhere warm enough that people do not want to leave.
The next chapter
Looking for a partner in all of it
Not someone to complete me. Someone to build alongside. Someone with her own fire, her own deen, her own vision who chooses to share the journey with mine.

The world through my eyes
Where I have been
7
Countries and counting
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Somalia
Where the roots are. Going back reminds you who you are before the world tells you who to be.
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Saudi Arabia
Standing in the Haram rearranges something in you. Some things cannot be explained, only felt.
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Qatar
A country that decided what it wanted to be and built it. Ambition in architecture form.
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Jordan
Petra. The Dead Sea. History you can walk through and touch with your hands.
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Ethiopia
Addis Ababa has a pulse. A continent finding its way on its own terms.
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United States
Home base for now. Where I am building. The list is not finished.
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Canada
A good reminder that the world is bigger than wherever you are standing right now.

Outside
How I recharge
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Hiking
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Long walks
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Nature
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Sunrises
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Cycling
Camping

A long walk fixes most things. A good hike fixes everything else. The right person makes both better.

The real me
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My energy
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Ambivert. Quiet in a crowd, fully present one on one. I notice what people do not say.
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How I love
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Slowly and completely. You will feel it in the small consistent things more than any grand gesture.
Inside
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Constantly thinking, building, solving three problems at once. The calm outside is earned.
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In conflict
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I talk it out. I do not shut down or go cold. Communication is not optional for me.
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My humor
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Dry, deadpan, comes out of nowhere. The people who get it really get it.
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Still working on
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Letting people in without feeling like it costs me something. Showing that I care before I am asked to.
My traits
Emotional depth95%
Patience90%
Ambition98%
Loyalty100%
Communication88%
Extroversion55%
What I bring to you
You will never feel like a burden for being honest with me
I chose to listen before I chose to respond
I notice when you go quiet and check on you without being asked
You should never have to ask me to check on you
I will be your biggest supporter without losing myself in it
Your wins feel like mine. That is just how I work.
I will remind you of Allah when the world pulls you away
The best a spouse can do is make the deen feel lighter
What I need from you
Honesty, even when it costs something
I can handle the truth. I cannot handle being managed.
Deen that is real and chosen, not just inherited
I want a partner who chose Islam, not just someone born into it
Communication when things get hard
Go quiet from the world, never from me
Your own purpose and drive
I want a partner, not a passenger
This or that
Round 1 of 10
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Books that shaped me
Ihya Ulum al-Din
Imam Al-Ghazali
A complete manual for cleaning the soul and building a life with meaning. I return to it constantly.
Riyadh al-Salihin
Imam An-Nawawi
Every time I open it something recalibrates quietly inside me.
1984
George Orwell
A book about truth and what happens when people stop questioning things. Still uncomfortably relevant.
Animal Farm
George Orwell
Orwell said plainly what most people dress up in complexity to avoid.
The most important thing about me
My deen
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.
Surah Ar-Rum 30:21
"The world is a provision, and the best provision of the world is a righteous wife."
Sahih Muslim
"When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion. Let him then fear Allah regarding the remaining half."
Al-Bayhaqi
I completed the Quran
The book that shaped everything I believe and how I move through this world
I used to teach Islamic studies
Teaching forced me to go deeper into everything I thought I understood
Fiqh is my favorite subject
The way scholars reasoned through complexity across centuries fascinates me
Tarbiya is the real work
Cleaning the nafs, building the character. The outward is easy compared to the inward.
The scholars who shaped me
Imam Al-Ghazali
1058 to 1111 CE · Philosopher, Theologian, Scholar of the Soul
Hujjat al-Islam. He left prestige and comfort at the height of his career to search for what was real. His Ihya Ulum al-Din is the most thorough guide I have found for building a life of inner integrity.
Imam An-Nawawi
1233 to 1277 CE · Jurist, Hadith Scholar
His 40 Hadith is something I return to constantly. Riyadh al-Salihin sits near where I sleep. He had a gift for making the profound feel accessible without losing any of its weight.
Tazkiyat al-nafsFiqh al-ibadatIhsanAkhlaaqQuran and tafsirHadith sciencesUsul al-fiqhSpiritual discipline
A dua I make often
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us a leader for the righteous.
إِنَّمَا الْأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّاتِ
Actions are but by intentions.
Hadith - Bukhari and Muslim
From me, to you
A letter I have been meaning to write
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ
To the one I have not met yet,

I do not know your name yet. I do not know what your laugh sounds like or what your face looks like when you are thinking hard about something. But I know you exist somewhere and when we find each other it will feel like it was always supposed to happen.

I want you to know that I have been building. Not just a company or a degree. I have been building the version of myself that is actually ready for you. Patient enough to hold space for the hard days. Grounded enough in deen to be your anchor when things shake. Present enough to actually see you, not just what I want you to be.

I grew up between worlds. Somali roots, American soil, a faith that held it all together. That taught me that belonging is something you build, not somewhere you arrive. I want to build that with you, ideally back home or somewhere in East Africa where the azan wakes you up and the community is still the community.

I have walked trails alone and thought about what it would feel like to have someone worth talking to beside me. I have sat in the Haram and made dua for you by name, even though I did not know it yet. That is how real this has been in my mind before we have even spoken.

I will not be perfect. I have things I am still working on and Al-Ghazali would have a lot to say about some of them. But I will always be honest, I will always choose you over my ego, and I will never let you feel alone in something we are supposed to face together.

Just come as yourself. No performance, no curated version. I am not looking for finished. I am looking for real. Take your time. Khayr inshallah.

Qasim
Could we?
Let us actually find out

You have been reading about me for a few minutes now. This is where it gets interesting. Answer honestly, imagine openly, and see what comes up. No right answers, no pressure. Just two people figuring out if this makes sense.

One honest thing before you start. I want to live in a Muslim country, ideally back in Somalia or somewhere in East Africa. That is not a dealbreaker question but it is an honest one. You deserve to know that going in.

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Green flag or red flag?
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Tap 🟢 if it is true about you. Tap 🔴 if it is not. No judgment either way.


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The final step - tell him about you
Let me get to know you

You have been learning about me this whole time. Fair is fair. Answer honestly and at the end you can send your answers directly to me.

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What should I call you?
2 of 11
How would you describe your relationship with your deen right now?
It is the foundation of everything I do
I practice sincerely and it is growing
I am somewhere in the middle and being honest about it
It is more cultural right now but I want more
3 of 11
When it comes to where you want to build your life, what feels right?
A Muslim country, ideally Somalia or East Africa
Open to a Muslim country, still figuring it out
Western country but with a strong Muslim community
Wherever opportunity and family are
4 of 11
What is your love language?
Quality time, undivided attention is everything
Words of affirmation, tell me you see me
Acts of service, show up without being asked
Physical touch, presence and closeness
5 of 11
How would your closest friends describe you in one sentence?
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When you are having a hard day, what do you need from the person closest to you?
Just sit with me, I do not need words
Let me talk through it, I need to be heard
Give me space and check on me later
Distract me, take me somewhere else mentally
7 of 11
What are you actively working on about yourself right now?
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Your relationship with your family looks like...
Very close, family is central to everything I do
Close but I value my independence too
Complicated but I am working on it
I am building my own definition of family
9 of 11
What is your biggest fear about marriage?
Losing myself in someone else
Choosing the wrong person and it falling apart
Not being enough for the other person
The responsibility and everything that comes with it
10 of 11
What is one thing you need your partner to understand about you from day one?
11 of 11
Tell me one real thing about yourself that a profile would never show.
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Something real

Qasim reads every message personally. No screening, no middleman. Just him.

Sent. JazakAllah khayr. Qasim will be in touch. 🤍

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